YOU ARE.............

As we watch the sun go down,

I want to let you know;

my love for you is forever,

I'll never let you go.

You're the one I've been searching for,

the one I've finally found;

without you in my life,

my world wouldn't go round.

The love you bring into my heart,

which is so true and kind;

is something in no other,

I could truly find.

You're the only one for me,

God tells me so,

deep within my heart, mind body and soul.

it's all about me and you;

about the love we share,

and how it will forever continue to grow.

It's not all about the chocolates, or the dozen roses;

it's about the love we found,

how much we've been blessed.

Everything happens for a reason,

I believe this statement is true,

that's why you were sent to me,

and I was sent to you.

I've never been more happy,

as I've been with you;

even through the rough times,

we always make it through;

To be with you for eternity,

is all I want for me and you.

All I want to say,

I may not be your first love,

but I promise, with all my heart,

that I will be that one from up above,

your one and only, true love!

                                                                         ~ Genny R. Tajalle.

HOW TO LOVE...........

How to Love

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same name. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. There is a similar feeling called lust which may be confused with love. You need to decipher between the two in order to have a healthy heart. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).

While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.

1.Know it. First of all you should know you like someone or not.

2. watch. see if the one you are interested in is engaged with someone else, if yes then wait till they break up or leave him, if not then see he/she too likes you or not.

3. Say it.

Say it.

Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

4

Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.

5

Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

6

Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

7

Realize it can be lost.

Realize it can be lost.

Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

8

Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.

TRUE LOVE........

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous....
Then it's not love .. it's "Infatuation"

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ...
Then it's not love.. it's "Compromise"

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him...
Then it's not love.. it's "Inferiority Complex"

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
Then it's not love .. it's "Charity"

If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...
Then it's not love... it's "Friendship"
BUT...
If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
'n you cry for him ... that's "LOVE"

If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets... that's "LOVE"

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ... that's"LOVE"

The Unknown Love

A true Love story... At the end u wil come to know to what extend Love
takes
people..... 


This is a story of Parul and Rahul. Parul, a 25-year old workaholic who
is working in a software firm. Parul came to office at 9 or 10 in the morning
and left at 11 or 12 at night. Even on weekends she would come down to office.
She had no social life, no friends. The only people she use to be with were her
project mates. But there was no assurance that she would be having her
lunch or tea with them. Basically she was all a loner. There was no love life in her
life and she had no time for love. All her time was devoted to work

Rahul, use to be a workaholic like Parul 2 years back. But now things had
changed. He was no more workaholic but still he use to stay in office.
Office had become home for him.

One night while Parul was all alone and working at the office a mail popped
up in her mailbox. The name of the sender was Rahul Mehra. She had not met
him, never heard about him. Just out of curiosity she checked his mail. The
content of the mail was

Hi Parul,

I see you every night sitting in the office till very late. Don't you have
friends? Don't you feel like talking to your roommate?

You should not sit very late in the office. this is a genuine advice from
me.

Thanks,

Rahul Mehra

After reading the mail, Parul was very angry on the sender. She simply
deleted the mail and said to herself "who is he to give me any advice?". She again
got back to her work.

After that night, every night Rahul would keep sending her mails and Parul
would simply delete them without even reading the content of the mail. But
one fine night the subject line attracted her and she had to open the mail.

The subject line of the mail was "Hi Gorgeous"
Hi Gorgeous,

Yes today you are looking very gorgeous in this red saree. I know you don't
read my mails as you don't like the advices I give you.

So today I wont give you any advice, I will just say that I am love with
you. You know you are very beautiful and if you take care of yourself many men
will fall in love with you. I am sure someday you will also fall in love with me. And then we will go out for a date. Oh before I end the mail I must tell you that the best thing about is that smile. Or is it those intense which needs some sleep at the moment.

Take care dear.
Love you.
Rahul Mehra.

After reading the mail she was shocked. A person she had never met, never
seen, never spoke to was saying that he was in love with her. She started
thinking was this always in his mind. How did he get her id? Where had he seen her? Many questions like this came in her mind. Finally she thought of giving a
warning and replied to his mail.

Hi Rahul,
I don't want to spoil your career but if you don't stop sending me mails I
will raise an ASHI against you.

Thanks and Regards,
Parul Jain

After this mail, the mails from Rahul stopped coming in Parul's inbox. She
thought that finally Rahul has got scared and wont be mailing her again.
After several nights, Parul was resting on her chair and her eyes closed. When
she opened her eyes she saw Rahul's mail in her mailbox.

Hi Gorgeous,
With your closed eyes you were dreaming about me, right? Oh sorry for not
sending any mails in the last few days. I was a little busy. I am sure you would have missed me a lot.
One more thing before I forget I want to say that I am not scared of ASHI.
An ASHI cant be a reason to stop loving you.

Love you.
Rahul Mehra



Parul was twisting her hair and putting them behind her ears. At that
moment itself another mail came from Rahul,

Now stop playing with your hair and leave the office. it is very late.

Love.
Rahul Mehra

Parul was shocked as to how did this person know what she was doing on her
desk. She got up to check whether anyone was there in her floor but could
find only empty cubicles. She thought maybe he made a wild guess and decided to
leave the office. before leaving she saw another mail from Rahul.

Hi Parul,
Searching for me??? You have started falling in love with me. :)

Love you.
Rahul Mehra



Parul was shocked and scared to hell. She simply switched off her machine
and ran outside the office. in the next few days she would not open any mails
sent by Rahul. One night a mail with subject line "Don't be scared of me" came
to her mailbox. First she thought to ignore the mail then she thought lets see
what has Rahul written this time.

Hi Parul,

Don't be scared of me. I can say that you are scared of me because of the
way you ran out from the office the last time you read my mail.

I know few minutes back you had gone to have coffee. You are thinking how I
know this because I can feel you around me.

Only once you also start feeling me you will know that I am near to you.
Very near. Just sitting next to you.

I will wait for the night when you start having the same feelings for me.

Will always love you.
Rahul Mehra



Now Parul started thinking was Rahul really in love with her? What he was
saying was it true? But how could he know so much about her? How could he
say what she was doing and what not?

Parul thought lets give a try and see whether Rahul is always in love with her or not. From that night she also started replying to his mail.



Hi Parul,

Do you feel bad if I call you gorgeous?
Love you.
Rahul Mehra

Parul's reply:

Yes Rahul. I don't like this word.

You can address me as Parul, isn't it short and simple. and I love my name
a lot.

Thanks and Regards,
Parul Jain

Rahul's reply:

Point noted Parul. But when I am happy, excited I would call you with some
special name at that time.

Tomorrow you have your certification so all the best for that.

Love you.
Rahul Mehra


Parul was again shocked as to how does he know about her certification. She
had never told him. She replied

Rahul,
Who is the person who is giving you details about me? I had not told you
about my certification how do you know it?

Thanks and regards,
Parul Jain

Rahul replied back to her

I know it because I in front of you. Cant you see me? Cant you feel me
close to you?
I also know that after 3 days you have your appraisal. Now this you have
not told anyone. Just your PM knows about it.
Do you think your PM will give me all these details?

Love you.
Rahul Mehra



Parul not sure of the answer. She knew her PM would not have told Rahul all
this but how did Rahul know so much about her was a mystery for her.
Finally
she thought she will talk to her PM, Rohan.

Next day, she went to her PM's desk. "Hi Rohan. I wanted to ask you
something".

Rohan:- "Sure Parul. Are having any issues?"

Parul:- "No. actually I wanted to know about a person named Rahul Mehra."

Rohan was shocked on hearing that name. PM:- "How did you come across this
name. has anyone told you about him?"

Parul:- "No one has said anything to me about him. Few days back he started
sending me e-mails. First I ignored but then he would give such details
which I did just few minutes back. He even knows my appraisal date."

Rohan:- "Are you sure you got mails from Rahul Mehra only?"

Parul:- "Yes very much. But why do you looked shock?"

Rohan:- "Because Rahul Mehra died 2 years back. He use to sit at the same
place where you are sitting. How can a dead person send mails to you."

Parul was shocked. She didn't know how to react to this.

Rohan:- "If you don't believe me then you can try finding his name in the
telephone directory. Maybe someone told you about him and because of work
stress you started imagining that he is sending you mails."

Parul:- "I am not imagining anything. He has really send me a mail. I can
show you in my mailbox."

Rohan:- "Okay Parul I believe you but still I think you should take a break
and go home."

Parul was still in shock with the news she got from Rohan. She just did a
search on telephone directory for a name with Rahul Mehra and page returned
no records. She again checked the mail id and employee number details. She did
a search many times that day by putting various combinations but the search
page displayed the same message "No matches found for the given search
criteria".
She could not believe that someone could hack the system and send mails to
her from an non-existing id. She attached the mails sent by Rahul and sent it
to Rohan as a proof that she was not dreaming.

On seeing the attached mails even Rohan was in shock. He came to Parul's
desk.
Rohan:- "I think by mistake his id has not been deleted and someone who
knows bout it is playing with it."

Parul:- "But I checked the details on telephone directory there are no
records available for this id."

Rohan:- "Talk to the CCD people and see what they have to say."

She called up the CCD people. They took control over her system and looked
at the mail sent by Rahul Mehra. The mail was sent from the from the same
computer which Parul was using. The time stamp at which the mails were sent Parul
had logged in. Also there was no evidence that a remote desktop connection was
made or mail was sent through web mail. Even the CCD people were clueless as to
how a mail has been sent from a non-existing id and from Parul's system itself.
There were no viruses or Trojans or any other kind of threats on Parul's system.
Her anti-virus was up to date. The whole day was gone in finding a loophole as
to how did Parul get such a mail in her mailbox. Parul was tired from the
day's happening and so she decided to leave early from the office that day.

The next day when Parul came back, she saw a mail from Rahul Mehra. She
didn't know whether she should delete that mail or read that mail. She was scared
to open the mail. Somehow she gained some courage and opened the mail. The
context of the mail was:-



Hi Parul,



Good to see that you left the office early tonight. I know Rohan told you
about my death.

I was also a workaholic like you. I would sit late in the office, even when
no one was around me.
I just being at office. I had no friends, no social life. Even on weekends
I would use to come to office.

I missed all the fun in my life. Even my death happened at office while I
was working.
My dead body was found by the house keeping guy and the security guard at
the reception.

I took a lot of work stress which my conscious mind could not bear that
day. I ignored all the health problems I was having.
And finally on that night (20. 10. 07, 11:24 PM) all these reasons became
responsible for my death.

Now you know why I am not scared of ASHI.
But yes if I was alive then also I won't be scared of ASHI because I have
really fallen in love with you but we cant be together until your death.
Now the choice is yours whether you will kill yourself on your own or
whether I need to do the honors.

Waiting for your death.

Love you always.

Rahul Mehra

Some love stories have ghost in it...

Love...Yet Different Kind Of.......

On the last day before Christmas, I hurried to go to the supermarket to buy the
remaining of the gift I didn't manage to buy earlier.

When I saw all the people there, I started to complain tomyself,"It is going to take forever here and I still have so many other places to go.
Christmas really is getting more and more annoying every year.How I wish I could just lie down, go to sleep and only wake up after it..."

Nonetheless, I made my way to the toy section, and there I started to curse the prices, wondering if after all kids really pla ywith such expensive toys.

While looking in the toy section, I noticed a small boy of about 5 years old, pressing a doll against his chest. He kept on touching the hair of the doll and looked so sad. I wondered who was this doll for. Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him, "Granny, are you sure I don't have enough money?"

The old lady replied, "You know that you don't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear."

Then she asked him to stay here for 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly. The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I started to walk toward him and I asked him who did he want to give this doll to.
"It is the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for this Christmas. She was so sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her."

I replied to him that may be Santa Claus will bring it to her, after all, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly.

"No, Santa Claus can not bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mother so that she can give it to her when she goes there."

His eyes were so sad while saying this.

"My sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mummy will also go to see God very soon, so I thought that she could bring the doll with her to give it to my sister."

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said, "I told daddy to tell mummy not to go yet. I asked him to wait until I come back from the supermarket."